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Bill, Melinda Gates divorce after 27 years is heartbreaking. Here’s why.

Bill and Melinda Gates were the philanthropic power couple that took the world by storm. Together, the Microsoft co-founder and his wife built the world’s largest charitable foundation — all while raising three children.

Their union seemed perfect, and their marriage stood the test of time as it neared the three-decade mark, a rare feat in the world of A-list couples. So when they announced their split on Twitter this week, many were shocked, even heartbroken. People reflected on their own marriages and wondered how they could make it work if the Gates could not. Collectively, we found we cared about the split — a lot.

“Literally shaking and crying about Bill and Melinda Gates divorcing,” tweeted @Aiden_CDN. “Heartbreaking!! Why is the lovely Gates divorcing???” added @itigerroar.

“They always seemed like a united front,” explains Carmelia Ray, a celebrity matchmaker and relationship expert. “They were philanthropic together, traveled together, and supported each other through all these years.”

That’s in sharp contrast with other recent celebrity splits like Kim Kardashian and Kanye West or Jennifer Lopez and Alex Rodriguez. In those instances, onlookers saw the writing on the wall. The Gates’ relationship seemed ideal.

“We’ve never seen a hiccup in their marriage. To the public, they were this epitome of a romantic and perfect power couple,” Ray adds. “There wasn’t any infidelity we were aware of, any drama, so to us, they seemed perfectly happy and content.”

Peter Walzer, a family lawyer in Los Angeles, says the Gates were widely admired, making the news of their split even more devastating.

“They’ve been involved in all the hot issues. They donated almost $1.8 billion to COVID research. They’re huge in the climate change world and in curing AIDS. They’ve made a generous commitment to giving away their wealth for the common good,” he says. “So people often saw these two as angels, and how could angels get divorced?”

Their divorce shattered their image of perfection.  “In reality, they were great people and great role models, but of course, they’re human like all of us.”

Is love dead?

The Gates’ split has some looking inward, wondering how they can make their own marriages survive when one with all the resources in the world failed.

Pandemic break-ups aren’t uncommon. The stresses of quarantine – boredom, lack of escape from each other, conflicts over the kids, conflicts over chores, lack of exercise – have forced many couples to reconsider how they feel about their partners. America’s divorce rate has reached nearly 50%.

Gemma Broadhurst
Gemma Broadhurst is a 23-year-old computing student who enjoys extreme ironing, hockey and duck herding. She is kind and entertaining, but can also be very standoffish and a bit evil.She is an Australian Christian. She is currently at college. studying computing. She is allergic to milk. She has a severe phobia of chickens

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